Forgiveness
I'm not really sure why this topic feels so relevant to me today, but it is a topic we discussed in our Sunday School class yesterday morning. We're reading an awesome book and the two chapters we discussed yesterday were forgiving yourself and accepting forgiveness. Someone made a pretty insightful observation that all our lives we're taught the steps on how to forgive others who have wronged you. The converse of that is that no one ever teaches us how to forgive ourselves. In a society where social, familial, and professional pressures increase each generation, we fail to teach young people how to cope and handle their missteps personally. Often, we either hear or speak the phrases,"I am my own worst critic," or, "I hold myself to a higher standard than anyone else could." How do we get past the feelings when inevitably we fall short. Personally, I find it more difficult to accept forgiveness from others when I haven't even forgiven myself. Thank God for grace and wisdom that I may teach my children to accept the grace of others and to understand that we are destined to imperfection but loved for who we are.


1 Comments:
Brad, it's amazing to me how insightful you are sometimes. God's grace is amazing and I thank him everyday that he forgives me. It is hard to forgive others before you forgive yourself, but that's just it, once you forgive yourself it just makes it so easy. If you see yourself and forgive yourself for how flawed you are, it's so much easier to see how you can forgive others for their flaws also. Josh is going to share with you guys next week a paper I wrote that goes into more detail about my forgiveness. I know I keep saying it, but this book just really opened my eyes and changed my life!
Also just a note, it does seem we have similar styles! :) This blogging thing is sorta fun.
Post a Comment
<< Home